Wednesday, October 7, 2026

Wedding Robes and the Golden Calf

 2026  10  11 Pentecost 20A  Proper 23A

Exodus 32:1-14  Psalm 106:1-6, 20-24  Philippians 4  Matthew 22:1-14

 

What do you do when things don’t seem to be happening?  Do you take matters into your own hands?  Most of us do.  Or if there is a delay in the actualization of an event, do you just go back to the usual way of life?  Most of us do.   But the readings today remind us to keep waiting for God and don’t give up.  Most importantly, even though God seems to delay, keep expecting him…. Don’t give up.  And then, in the Gospel reading, we have this interesting part of the story about clothing.

 

If you go to visit the Vatican in Rome, you will notice many people selling things to those lined up.  They sell large light weight scarves, long enough to wrap around your waist and have it cover your knees.  Or you can wrap it around you as a shawl in case your shoulders are exposed.  You cannot enter if your knees or shoulders are exposed. 

 

Growing up in this warm and casual town, I missed these rules.  I went to a catholic school and was taught by nuns whose last school was in New Guinea.  They told us that God accepts you no matter how you look or what you wear.  They impressed upon us that it was important to go to church, and if that meant going as you were, that was fine.  And oftentimes I did go straight from a basketball game to church – in our basketball uniform – which is of a style that no one wears now.  The bottoms were called bummers and every girl at that time, playing basketball in Mackay, wore bummers.   I wore mine to church thinking nothing of it…  perhaps naively.

 

So perhaps it is no wonder that something that has always intrigued me, is that line in our Gospel reading about the man who was not wearing wedding clothes.  Does God care really care what we wear?   Oh, my goodness, this makes me laugh!  I’m thinking of all the judgments I’ve heard over the years and some of the outfits I’ve seen on the street – and the arguments I’ve had with people over the years about this issue. 

 

It is a reminder to us that we need to understand that the original writers and readers of this Gospel belonged to a different time and culture.  The word of God stays the same, but to understand what is being communicated, we need to explore the culture and context and discover what the original listeners understood about the story.

 

The first thing to understand is that it was customary to have two invitations to the wedding; the first was kind of like a “heads up.  Soon we’ll be sending for you.” and the second one was to say, “The feast is ready.  Come now”.  Here we have a King who invites people to the wedding feast, but the invitation is ignored.  The King then sends out the second invitation, but this one is also ignored.  While some of those invited made light of the situation, others were actually hostile and mistreated or killed the messengers.

 

Let’s just stop right there.  Since forever, God’s prophets have been treated with contempt.  Some have been mistreated, abused and killed.  These are the prophets who came before Jesus and those who came after also.  The saints and the martyrs… and many whose names we don’t know.  Today, is the same.  

It surprised me recently to read comments on social media that condemned Mother Theresa.  Once upon a time, she seemed like the universal saint that everyone from everywhere respected.  She was the lady from a comfortable background who gave that comfort up so that she could care for the poor in India.  But people now twist and condemn her actions and spread vicious lies about her motives – Things that can’t really be refuted because a motive is a thing unknown.

 

Might I suggest the same is happening with some modern people.  Those who stand up publicly to proclaim God’s standard.  Joanna Howe who reminds us that life begins in the womb, every word she says if it can be twisted, it is.  Attacks on her husband and attacks on their relationship.  We really need to pray for these people.  They are doing the job that we are called to do.  Last week we saw that we, Christians, are the tenants of God’s vineyard.  We are to be faithful in producing fruit in the world.  That means that WE are called to be the body of Christ in our world, producing fruit for God the King.

 

The King in our reading, sent troops and destroyed the city.  This is not a King who doesn’t care what happens to his messengers, and commentaries on this verse suggest that Matthew's audience would immediately connect that destruction to the literal destruction of Jerusalem and the Temple by Rome in AD 70.  To re-iterate last week’s message where we had the giving of the ten commandments; disaster always follows when the community fail to follow God’s law.

 

Our first reading tells us how this happens…. It happens when we take matters into our own hands.  We therefore make God into an image of our own making… and liking.

 

Last week we talked about this idea of “You do you and I’ll do me” – living by our own truth… it is called relativism and we all tend to do it.  Throwing gold into a fire and making a calf might seem weird and extreme, but that community we genuinely trying to worship God, and didn’t realize their error. We all tend to make God into an image that is OUR image.  We hear it all the time; people say, “I live by God’s law, but I don’t believe you have to go to church to be a Christian”.    Do they actually know what God’s law is?  They know about treating others as you’d like to be treated…. But that isn’t the first and greatest command.  When we are not immersed in, and studying God’s word, and meeting together etc..  we can all get things wrong also. 

 

ALL are invited to the wedding feast.  The spiritual meaning is that we are all invited to the Heavenly banquet.  Many are called but few are chosen.  In the Greek original language of this verse the word for called Kletos and the word for chosen is eklektos.  So the word play implies a sifting and refining between the two groups.  We are all refined by immersing ourselves in the word of God and by becoming well acquainted with it.

 

Immersing ourselves means being covered by it…  Immersing is what baptism means.  In baptism we are immersed in water – symbolically.   The Spiritual reality is that we are being reborn as a child of God.  Our old nature is said to die with Christ, and we emerge from the water reborn as an eternal child of God, raised with Christ.  Traditionally we wear a white outfit because we are said to now be clothed in Christ, and when God the father looks at us, he sees the sacrifice and perfection of Jesus – the only person who could ever perfectly keep God’s law. 

 

And here is the key to that mysterious verse about the wedding attire.  The king invited ALL to the feast.  They came in from everywhere and in the context of Jesus’ listeners he was telling them that they, the chosen people were rejecting him, but all others were now invited … and they were coming from everywhere.  This is us… the non-Jewish believers.  But know this for sure, we come to God and receive eternal life ONLY through Jesus…. There is no other way.   God does say, “Come one and come all and come as you are”…. But you must put on the wedding garment.

 

In that culture, it was acknowledged that people might come to the wedding without fine clothes and from various stations.  The host of the wedding provided the wedding robe so that all - the rich, the poor, the influential and the retiring… ALL were seen as equal.  The only exception was the Bride and Groom.  

 

God absolutely loves us all and has a special care for those gone astray.  He deliberately seeks them to call them back, but today we need to also understand that God has rules.  Heaven is not a place that we create according to our own design.  It is the kingdom of God, and to enter we must submit to the King.  We come to God through the sacrifice of Christ – the only way to the father.  We are clothed in him… that is the wedding robe we all must wear if we want to be in the Kingdom of God.  What incredibly great news is the Gospel!  We come as we are to God’s banquet, and God himself makes us acceptable by providing the robe.  But God always respects our free will.  If we don’t want to wear the robe that is okay, but we cannot enter the Kingdom.  Will we accept God as our Lord and King and wear that robe?

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