Thursday, November 5, 2026

Come be a Bridesmaid! Proper 27, Pentecost 24 8th November 2026

2026  11  08  Pentecost 24  Proper 27

Joshua 24.1-3a, 14-25   Psalm 78.1-7   1 Thessalonians 4.9-18   Matthew 25.1-13

 

Our readings tell of a wedding banquet and the bridesmaids, five of whom were foolish because they didn’t bring extra oil and five of whom were wise because they did.  Firstly, you might notice that not every translation calls these women bridesmaids, but essentially this is what they were. 

 

In the Jewish wedding traditions of the time, there were three parts to the wedding; “The Betrothal”, which consisted of a legally binding covenant.  Then there was “The Procession & Arrival”, where the groom, accompanied by his groomsmen, went to the bride’s home (often at night) to bring her to his house or a celebratory venue.  Finally, there was “The Marriage Feast” which would be a multi-day banquet.  It seems that our Gospel story is about the procession and arrival.

 

When my daughter got married, the bridesmaids turned up to her place and got dressed up and accompanied her on the day.  However, these bridesmaids of the Jewish wedding were responsible for keeping people safe on the journey.  They had the job of assisting the procession by lighting the path.  These occasions were often at night and there was often a delay, and the hour was not known.   In this case the groom was especially delayed.   Using this parable, Jesus makes it clear to us that this would be the case with the Messiah’s return – His return.

 

This story tells us an important fact about the event that is described in our second reading.  The procession of the groom is the coming of the Jesus, and when he comes, we are told that the dead in Christ will come with Him.  “the dead in Christ will rise first.

Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up in the clouds together with them to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will be with the Lord forever.”  At this time in the early church, some of the early Christians had died, and the people were concerned that these had missed out on the Messiah’s return and would therefore not share in the wonderful time of Christ’s reign.  They had witnessed the power of healings and knew Jesus rose from the dead and was coming again, so these Thessalonians, who thought the Messiah’s return was imminent were struggling to understand, and they were grieving over the death of their friends – as we all do. They thought that their friends missed out on being part of the reign of Christ.   God has a future planned for us beyond this existence.  We do not just die and rest in peace…. Death is not the end – there is more – We don’t know exactly what it will be but it will be very good.

 

Those of us here now, are the bridesmaids.  We wait, we prepare, we keep the faith – keep the fire lit, and we ultimately herald the coming of the Messiah.  The light is vital to keep the travellers safe.  This is a parable, so what is it practically trying to tell us?  At an obvious level, as Christians, we shine a light for our community.  The role of the bridesmaids was vital because there was no other light – all around was darkness and without this light, people could be harmed.  People could trip and fall.  People could be led astray in the pitch dark…. Completely lost!

 

This is our community – the world around us.  If you are not perceiving darkness in our world, might I respectfully suggest that this is because there have been faithful and wise “bridesmaids” who have shone the light of God into our world.  They have influenced our society.  William Wilbourforce who fought to abolish slavery…. It didn’t happen over night… he had to work at it, through resistance and intense opposition, to continue to bring the light of a better way…. And continue to advocate for human rights. … and continue… and continue.  Shining God’s light is not a sprint – it is a marathon and it needs a lot of “oil” !!  Florence Nightingale, George Washington Carver, Martin Luther-King, Corrie Ten Boom and Mother Theresa, all experienced various degrees of criticism.  Most faced severe backlash, hostility, or were viewed as "unbalanced" radicals during their lifetimes.

 

Where are the bridesmaids of today?  Who are they? 

 

Our church supported The Light Party.  These people keep the light lit!  And shine it into our dark world.  I would say these people are some of our modern-day bridesmaids.  Is it important to have a light party, do you think?  It is a Halloween alternative.  Most people think Trick or Treating is just a bit of fun to dress up etc and they get involved thinking nothing too deeply about it, However, many Christians believe it is celebrating the works of darkness – and you have only to note the kinds of decorations to know that this is lifting up evil.  Not that it was originally.  Halloween is All Hallows Eve and it is meant to be about celebrating heroes of the faith… the saints who faithfully served God – and that is what the Light Party strives to do; put the focus back on the heroes of faith.  To see the deeper significance, let me read to you what one parent said to an activity leader at that Light Party on Saturday; Through the week his daughter was preparing for Halloween and she saw the devil sitting on her bed.  Her father immediately picked up the Bible and began to read.  They attended the light party as a priority.   This is happening in our community.  Why?  And what is our part?  We need to shine the light so that our community can be kept safe.

 

What does it take to be a “bridesmaid”?  In our Old Testament reading Joshua was about to lead the people into the promised land.  Before doing so they entered a place with a lot of history and significance for them; Shechem. This is the place where God appeared to Abraham and promised the land to him.  The promise to Abraham had no conditions.  It was a gift from God.  What we read about today is the fulfillment of that promise, but also there is an important question; “Will you serve God?”  The people were rescued by God.  Sustained by God and yet they still had to be asked and made consciously aware that they needed to choose.  Why would the people of God need to be asked to choose?

 

We are the people of God also, and we need to be frequently asked to choose who we will serve.  We are forever being presented with the same question from God’s enemy, Satan.  We just don’t know that it is him.  It doesn’t happen obviously.  It sneaks in. 

 

People today serve "other gods" or commit modern idolatry by placing anything, any person, or any pursuit above God.  Materialism, money and consumerism can be a god for us, as can self-worship and ego.  Have you noticed the obsession with self in the last 20 years or so?  Putting our own desires, wisdom, comfort and rights above all else makes our “selves” into a god.  Another area of “Other gods” is to dabble in “New age” practices of crystals, astrology, and non-biblical traditions to manipulate life.  

 

All these things happen because they seem good.  They never seem extreme and we never hear Satan’s voice asking us who we will choose, but he presents us with the things we are not meant to partake in and explains it away as being good for us… and God won’t really mind.  Why I am so definite about these things is because I experienced this as a teenager.  I thought I was not doing anything harmful by reading my astrology or going to a self-help hypnosis class, until I was asked to whole heartedly say “YES” to God.  When I did, weird things began to happen.  This showed me clearly that through those things, Satan had a legal hold in my life.  I renounced those things in Jesus name. 

 

Joshua tells the people that they aren’t capable of serving the Lord.  He gives a warning about belonging to God and then serving other gods.  What does mean say for us?  It’s so good that we live in the New Testament times of grace!!!   BUT WAIT…..

 

Let’s have another look at our New Testament reading; the foolish bridesmaids ran out of oil.  And when they came back after getting some the response from the groom was; 'Truly I tell you, I do not know you.'  God has boundaries.  You might miss them, but look, they are always there.  Right from the beginning of time.  Adam was told don’t eat from the tree or else… he ate…  The consequences followed.

 

We tend to always make our spiritual life work to suit us.  God will love us and accept us.  Well, yes, He absolutely does.  But it cost God dearly to rescue us.  It cost him the life of Jesus.  There are boundaries…. Boundaries are the realities of life… the wall of consequences that we run into.  The spiritual life has rules - boundaries.  God loves us and promises us a future, but he revealed the boundaries.

 

The story of the bridesmaids was told to a Jewish audience who understood something of which we aren’t aware.  In Hebrew thought light is associated with God’s law, obedience and righteousness.  As far as boundaries go, please note what happened when the foolish bridesmaids had to go back for more oil.  The groom refused them entry for he did not know them. 

 

The oil is God’s law.  The oil is also the Holy Spirit.  The Holy Spirit was given on the day of Pentecost, a festival that celebrated the giving of the law.  What does it take to be a bridesmaid in the Kingdom of God?  We need the continuous infilling of the Holy Spirit.  We are continuously infilled by the Holy Spirit when we remain connected and obedient to God.

 

This life is almost obsessed with policies and procedures about health and safety, yet this world is unaware of the darkness and the pitfalls that it constantly walks into.  God calls each of us to be a bridesmaid.  It is so important that we fulfill our role.  Surely, it is obvious that this world is lost.  So many despairing, depressed, despondent and feeling that they have no future… that life has no future.  We need to light the path.  We need to be a light.  It starts by constantly asking God to fill us with His Spirit and constantly taking a stand and declaring into the darkness; As for me and my house… we will serve the LORD!